Forgetfulness
Mark Shea has a post today on the question of whether "forgetting completes the Christian process of forgiveness." We know we are to forgive, but are we to forgive and forget?
Here's what I wrote as a comment on Mark's post:
In Psalm 25:7, we pray with David, "Remember no more the sins of my
youth; remember me according to your mercy, because of your goodness,
LORD."
If God forgets something, it's not just forgotten. It
ceases to exist. More, it never did exist. That is the degree to which
God, in His freely bestowed mercy, forgives us, and restores our
relationship with Him.
Human forgetfulness doesn't work that way.
If you forget some wrong I've done, that doesn't mean I didn't do it.
The effects of my act remain. It may well be the case that those effects
are negligible, in which case we can speak of human forgetting in the
same metaphorical sense of Divine forgetting, to signify the full
restoration of a relationship. But there are also cases where the
effects aren't negligible and the full restoration of the relationship
is not within our power.
Our responsibility as Christians is to do what lies within our grace-aided power, but not what lies beyond.
So I guess I'd say the answer is yes and no. Yes, forgetting completes the Christian process of forgiveness, but no, that process isn't always complete this side of heaven.